Pretend that you met a really cute guy, and you are starting to catch feelings for him. What do you do? You can’t just go walk over to him and say “Hey, I like you”, that would be awkward. Instead of asking him if he likes you just get him to like you.
The first thing you want to do is be confident. “Confidence is key”. Confidence asserts power and knowledge. When you are confident people can tell. People gravitate toward confident people because when you are sure about yourself others tend to trust you more. Men love confidence because it is sexy. Men can spot confidence from a mile away. Women show confidence in how they walk, talk, and act. No man wants a woman that slouches when she walks and mumble when she talks. Put your head up high and strut like your life depends on it.
Be straight with him. Surprise him, be authentic. Show him your a special kind of girl, a one that like to takes risk, do the unusual and act differently. All these things are indicative of a high self esteem, and it like a sign saying I’m “special”. So, how can you be unusual and authentic? For example, you can write him a sexy good morning text message, you can surprise him for a dinner, you can fulfill one his fantasies ( every guy has fantasies…) and much more. just do it! Be creative!
To get a guy to like you have to look your best. Looking your best doesn’t necessarily mean putting on a full face of makeup and a cocktail dress every time you see him. But throwing on some eyeliner and a cute outfit can make men flock to you like sheep. Men are visual creatures so when they see a sexy woman they are naturally drawn to her. Looking good is not all about him either. Looking good makes you feel good. When you feel like you are looking hot you will act accordingly.
Remember, when getting a guy to like you it’s not all about you. You want to get to know him. There is nothing wrong with being a guys friend before hopping right into a relationship. Being a guys friend first eliminates the awkwardness of a relationship and it gives him a chance to get to know you and you a chance to get to know him. But be cautious because you don’t want to become “one of the guys”. To avoid this, occasionally flirt with him by touching his arm or winking at him a little bit.
It is very important to show the guy you like that you are not like any other girl. You are special. The key is being YOURSELF. There is no one else like you! Don’t try to be someone you’re not because most guys can see right through that. Guys like a girl who loves who she is and does not have a problem showing it. Even the little things that you think are unattractive, like snorting when you laugh, some guys find it really attractive. A guy will be more interested in you when he sees that you have flaws. Men don’t want a perfect woman because it’s boring. Guys like imperfections! Not everything about has to be perfect. You do not have to look like a supermodel to get a guy to like you. I know so many girls that go through life trying to fix every imperfection just to get a guy to like them, and unfortunately even after they feel they are perfect men still don’t want because they are too perfect. That is intimidating to a lot of guys. So the most important thing to do is be yourself! The right guy will like you for you